His Sixth Birthday Party….but he’s still 4

A gloomy Sunday out there today. It feels damp and it is cloudy. A good day for some English Breakfast Tea!

Yesterday was the birthday party for Corbin who is now 6. Although he just told his mom he’s only 4, so I guess it’s never too early to lie about your age.

The party was at Memorial Park which is huge and has everything a kid could want. Not too hot,not too windy. Charli and Papa preferred to sit in the shade and play games and eat those no bake cookies. The pinata was the hit of the party with kids going in for the candy like a swarm of bees.

It was all of the cousins and his classmates. The little blonde girl is his “friend”. She is also very bossy and over dramatic. As in she had a blister on her heel from the monkey bars. Yeah, puzzle that one out! They ran and played and ate everything in sight and we ducked out with Charli and went home to play games and watch television and just sit!

All in all it was a really good day and everyone had fun. Today Charli and I are doing nothing. I’ve written my tea cards and stamped those and many games have been played and music videos watched.

I hope you had a good week-end and are doing some self-care and recharging for Monday!

xx Patricia

A LESSON IN LOVE AND SOME TEA!


Good Saturday morning! Technically not morning but close enough. I’m going to talk about tea in a second. First I want to talk about these pictures.

We had our last class in the Monarch Garden yesterday afternoon. We released our Monarch, cleaned up the messes and by then it was time for school to be out. Our kids go from 9:10 to 4:00 p.m. The Fall Fundraiser and Pumpkin and Plant Sale began at 4:30 so I had just enough time to grab Corbin, give him a snack, find S.J. and S.J.’s mom and head to the ticket table.

After my shift the boys got Spiders painted on their faces and then proceeded to be boys and run for hours. They hit a bump in the road and Corbin fell. S.J. was there before me and Tommy was taking pictures. S.J. helped Corbin up, where they both laughed and then automatically hugged.

You see that? Our natural response is love.For anyone. Where do we lose that? Who told us to stop? As for me I am proud of my boys for not losing that sense of love and friendship. Our kids learn by example. What kind of example are you? Think about that.

First cool day deserves a little extra. Bigelow This is the Bigelow Salted Caramel Tea I sent in the mail last week. On its own it’s naturally sweet and yummy but it got sinful with a teaspoon of caramel sauce. Later it went to a new level entirely when instead of the caramel I used Dulce de Leche. Nirvana in my mouth, Y’all!!

It has been a busy week and it’s not over. This morning I made the Chocolate Peanut Butter No Bake Cookies for Corbin’s birthday party in 2 hours. Then made a casserole to heat up for later. Presents are wrapped, except for the giant plush tiger from Tommy’s Aunt Gayle.  Now to relax for a bit and get ready for a lot of 6 year olds high on sugar at the park.

Have a good Saturday and may the football Gods shine on your team!

xx Patricia

 

My New Normal Turns Out To Be My Old Normal!

I am so sorry tea, but that Southern Pecan coffee is insanely delicious and I needed a major jolt this morning.

Today is the final day of classes on the Migration and Life Cycle of the Monarch Butterfly as well as the Fall Festival at school. We had the fourth graders yesterday and they were fun. Those questions though. How long does it live ( 4-6 weeks) How do you know if it’s a boy or girl? (Spots) Does it poop? At that one my little friend by the pencil popped out a nugget and of course all the boys wanted to touch the poo. The only thing left in the hatchery is a chrysalis and a new butterfly and 2 caterpillars. One Monarch and one Swallowtail. They will all be released today.

The kids wrote about the life cycle and then made terrariums. Tommy showed up right before school let out and we planted some herbs and stuff in the salad garden. Each grade has a raised patch to tend. They graph the progress and learn a lot of lessons in the garden.

So it turns out my ‘new’ normal, is really my old profession. Teaching. But this time on a volunteer basis. I’m loving it. Kids are in my comfort zone and I get to see my boy at school. Yesterday while waiting on pick up he was snuggled up with some blonde floozy until PaPa saw him. Then he proceeded to tell all his friends that I was making him a Jurassic World cake for Saturday. I did not know this.

On a weird note…I received a friend request on IG from a real live Saudi Prince! Verified. I told him I don’t talk to men on the internet so he suggested Hangouts so we could plan our future life together. Is it bad that I thought about it for like 5 seconds? Then I blocked him.

Have a great Friday and look for the last of the Monarchs headed south!

xx Patricia

WHERE IN THE HECK DID SEPTEMBER GO?

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Good Sunny Thursday morning! Don’t let that sun fool you. It’s 56 degrees and that is winter weather in my book. The sun finally came out yesterday and I was able to do a few miles before the wind was too much for me.

Today I have a nice selection of books on tea to read while you sip. It’s my favorite activity.

An update on the donations of toiletries. A few of surrounding hotels heard and they wanted in. I will be thanking them personally. When they said a case I was thinking like a wine case. No. More like half of a coffin.

The rest of this week will be full. In a bit I will be leaving for the last of the Monarch classes for the fifth grade. Tomorrow is Fall Festival and we will all be there. Saturday is Corbin’s birthday party so by Sunday we will be partied out.

Have a great Thursday!

xx Patricia

He Owns My Heart!

It’s Birthday Time! Corbin is officially 6 years old today!! His party will be this weekend and will be fun I’m sure. So Happy Birthday Lovey!

I had an early morning appointment in the gloomy, drizzly weather. I’m sitting in the waiting room and this woman lights up a vape thingy and my asthma kicks in and Tommy is all full of righteous indignation on my behalf. Then the big lady comes out and tells them to get out of there with that vape thing, that they know better. So I’m hacking up a lung telling the doctor I’m fine. And I am. Allergies and all of the rain are just not fun for those of us who are sensitive.

I turned my phone off over the entire weekend. And you know what? It was bliss. I played music, I danced, I crocheted and watched Stranger Things. It was an entire self-care time. And by last night I was good. I felt cleansed of all the blah stuff on social media.

We had plans for today but they got changed so we went on a trip to Lake Hefner and had some nature time. Some of the roads and trails were under water still, but we met some lovely ducks and cranes.

Have a good Monday! Coming tomorrow….my Momma joins Instagram! You’ve all been warned so clean up any sex related posts. She doesn’t mind cussing. Just sex.

xxPatricia